| I'm not a bad person. Really. Well, ok, I | | | | CareerOne in Australia: |
| might have a few moments of evil chuckling at | | | | |
| the sight of a cat being chased by a cute | | | | |
| little rottweiler, but that's only because I | | | | |
| know the cat won't get caught. Probably.But I | | | | On the way to the interview, walk tall and |
| want to be better. I want to be one of those | | | | smile. Strangers will smile back at you and |
| people who everybody is happy to see. I want | | | | the receptionist at the interview firm will |
| to be one of those people who light up the | | | | be nice to you. By the time you hit the |
| room when they walk in, one of those people | | | | interview, you'll feel good. |
| who looks happy even in those strangely lit | | | | |
| surprise pictures. You know the ones I mean, | | | | |
| those pictures taken when you were busy | | | | |
| minding your own business picking the nuts | | | | The short of it: It is profitable to |
| out of a brownie, pretending you understand | | | | smile.Again, the most consistent advice given |
| what auntie Jane is blabbing on about when | | | | by guys who are good with women to guys who |
| you mother suddenly yells your name causing | | | | aren't: relax and smile. Oh, but what's more: |
| you to look around only to be blinded by the | | | | make her smile.Don Diebel, publisher of a |
| flash of her camera as she memorializes that | | | | self-proclaiming newsletter on dating, says, |
| precious moment for all eternity.And I think | | | | "Single women love a man with a good sense of |
| I've found the secret. It's almost too slight | | | | humor. If you can make her laugh, she will |
| a thing to believe it could be so key. In | | | | really be attracted to you."Tip #3 in the Top |
| fact, it almost feels like one of those dream | | | | 6 Dating Tips To Help You Date Women And |
| ideas that seems so great while you're | | | | Succeed At It! at EzineArticles quips, "If |
| asleep... but no, this one is real. I've | | | | you can make her laugh half your battle is |
| tried it, tested it, proved it. It's | | | | already won."I think there's really no |
| surprising sometimes, but it works.Just | | | | mystery here: People like to laugh. Not only |
| smile.I have this particular friend. He was | | | | that but they like to share their laughter |
| always willing to appreciate the beauty | | | | too. In a dating environment, these two |
| around us in all shapes and sizes, if you | | | | things work together quite well to form and |
| know what I mean (nudge, nudge, wink, | | | | strengthen attractions. Of course having a |
| wink).He had a rare and peculiar wisdom. One | | | | good sense of humor in dating is no guarantee |
| might even call it obscure at times. But on | | | | of anything, but if things don't work out at |
| one particular day when his wisdom was more | | | | least you got a laugh out of it.They say |
| obvious, a woman passed him by. The woman was | | | | laughter is the best medicine. Well it may |
| gorgeous by our American standards. Lovely | | | | not be the best, we have some pretty good |
| eyes... blond hair styled oh-so-right... with | | | | stuff these days, but still. Did you know |
| those well-proportioned... hands! (What did | | | | that laughter actually boosts the human |
| you think I was going to say?!) But she had | | | | immune system? |
| this scowl on her face that could crack open | | | | |
| a bank vault. This wise man turned to another | | | | |
| friend of mine and said, "Beauty is skin | | | | |
| deep; Attitude is to the bone."Personally, I | | | | After exposure to humor, there is a general |
| think he was quoting a song.Alright, so | | | | increase in activity within the immune |
| enough with my antics already. Let's get down | | | | system, including an increase in the number |
| to business. I think you've already figured | | | | and activity level of natural killer cells |
| out what I'm trying to say, "Smile." The | | | | that attack viral infected cells and some |
| defiant among you might respond with a | | | | types of cancer and tumor cells, an increase |
| flippant, "Why should I?"I could just say it | | | | in activated T cells (T lymphocytes) [...], |
| makes me feel good if you smile, but we all | | | | an increase in the antibody IgA |
| know that Copernicus was wrong, that each of | | | | (immunoglobulin A), which fights upper |
| our respective universes really does center | | | | respiratory tract insults and infections, |
| upon ourselves. So what I think really isn't | | | | [... and it keeps going!] |
| much of a motivator for you. Instead, let me | | | | |
| ask you a few questions. We can all | | | | |
| sing-along the answer. | | | | |
| | | | [ source: Holistic Online ]The Archives of |
| | | | Internal Medicine recently published a study |
| | | | by a team of Dutch researches which found |
| Do you want to be more photogenic? Smile. | | | | that being optimistic significantly reduced |
| | | | the risk of demise by heart disease in men. A |
| Do you want to get a new job? Smile. | | | | blurb from a brief of the report: |
| | | | |
| Do you want to better success in your dating | | | | |
| life? Smile. | | | | |
| | | | Among men ages 64 to 84 who were free of |
| Do you want to be healthier? Smile. | | | | cardiovascular disease and cancer, those who |
| | | | consistently looked at the bright side of |
| | | | life and had generally positive expectations |
| | | | had a 55% lower risk for cardiovascular |
| The most consistent advice given by | | | | mortality compared with gloomy pessimistic |
| self-help professionals around the world on | | | | men. |
| how to interact with other people in any | | | | |
| given situation is to smile.A great quote by | | | | |
| Henry Miller: | | | | |
| | | | [ source: MedPage Today ]"Just the facts, |
| | | | Ma'am."Alright. Enough of my babbling. The |
| | | | short of this whole smile business: The |
| When you speak to people -- smile. It is a | | | | single, most impactful, most significant |
| wonderful thing when you meet someone and | | | | thing you can do to make you a better person |
| they just instinctively smile and say "I am | | | | is to smile. Smile to be pretty, smile to be |
| mighty glad to know you." There is power in a | | | | smart, smile to get girls and smile for your |
| smile. It is one of the best relaxation | | | | heart.Topher ZiCornell tries to smile at |
| exercises of which I know. | | | | least once a day and twice on Sundays. His |
| | | | bald head has been known to draw butterflies, |
| | | | ladybugs and airline stewerdesses. Among |
| | | | other projects, Topher is working with the |
| "Mighty glad!" Love that.Go to any career | | | | online stores |
| advising site and look up their interviewing | | | | |
| tips and tricks or whatever similar. They'll | | | | Eleworth (selling Jewelry) and Nonty |
| have it listed right there, just like | | | | (selling Perfumes, Colognes and Other Stuff). |